Which Potty Training Method is Best for Your Child?
Potty training is a major milestone for both parents and children. For first-time parents, it can feel daunting, but with patience and the right approach, you can help your child transition from nappies to the potty or toilet with ease. In this guide, we’ll explore different potty training methods, give advice on when to start, and offer helpful tips to support you through this important journey.
When is Your Child Ready for Potty Training?
Every child is different, and there isn’t a set age when all children should start potty training. Most children begin to show signs of readiness between 18 months and 3 years, but it’s crucial to go at your child’s pace. Here are some signs they might be ready:
• They stay dry for at least two hours at a time.
• They show an awareness of their bodily functions (e.g., they may hide when they’re about to poo or tell you when their nappy is wet).
• They start showing interest in the bathroom or using the toilet.
• They are physically capable of sitting down on the potty and getting back up.
Most children can control their bowels before their bladder, and by age 3, many are dry during the day. However, staying dry overnight can take longer, and some children may not be dry at night until they are 5 years old.
Different Potty Training Methods
There’s no ‘one-size-fits-all’ approach when it comes to potty training. The key is finding the method that works best for your child’s personality and development.
1. Child-Led Potty Training
This method focuses on waiting until your child shows clear signs of readiness before introducing the potty. It’s a gentle, relaxed approach where parents encourage their child to use the potty but don’t put pressure on them. You might start by simply leaving the potty around so your child gets used to seeing it. Over time, they’ll start associating it with going to the toilet.
Best for: Children who may resist pressure or need extra time to adapt to new routines.
2. Scheduled Potty Training
This approach involves taking your child to the potty at regular intervals, such as every 30 to 60 minutes, giving them plenty of opportunities to go. It helps establish a routine and is particularly useful for children who may not yet recognise when they need to use the bathroom.
Best for: Parents who prefer a structured routine. It works well for children who respond well to predictability.
3. Potty Training in a Weekend
This method involves dedicating a few days to focus solely on potty training. It usually involves staying at home, having your child wear training pants or underwear, and frequently encouraging them to use the potty. This more intensive approach can lead to quicker results but requires consistency and effort from both the child and parents during this short training period.
Best for: Parents who want to dedicate a block of time and see fast progress. It works well for children showing many signs of readiness.
4. Elimination Communication (Early Potty Training)
In this method, parents start potty training in infancy by observing their baby’s signals that they need to use the toilet. Parents then hold their baby over a potty or toilet and encourage them to go. This method requires significant attention and commitment but can help babies develop body awareness early on.
Best for: Parents who are keen to start early and comfortable with the commitment of closely monitoring their baby.
5. The Potty Doll Method
This method uses a special doll that can ‘wee’ to demonstrate how to use the potty. Children practice potty training with the doll, which helps make the process more engaging and fun. It can be a great way to turn potty training into a playful experience.
Best for: Toddlers who enjoy role-playing and hands-on activities. It’s ideal for children who may need extra motivation or fun during the process.
Tips for Successful Potty Training
• Be patient: Potty training takes time, and accidents are part of the process. Stay calm and avoid showing frustration.
• Offer praise: Positive reinforcement works wonders. Celebrate small successes with praise, but avoid overdoing it to prevent added pressure. Sticker charts are a great way to track progress.
• Make it fun: Let your child pick out a special potty or training pants to make the experience enjoyable. Books, songs, or games about using the potty can also help.
• Use easy clothing: Dress your child in clothes that are easy to pull up and down. Avoid outfits with zips, buttons, or layers that might slow them down when they need to go.
• Stay consistent: Try to stick to a routine. Encourage your child to use the potty at specific times, such as after meals, before naps, and before bedtime.
• Handle accidents calmly: If your child has an accident, simply remind them where they should go next time. Avoid punishment, as it may create anxiety and slow their progress.
Night-Time Potty Training
Daytime potty training usually comes first, but staying dry through the night can take longer. If your child wakes up dry for several mornings in a row, they may be ready for night-time potty training. Use a waterproof mattress cover and keep the potty close by to make night-time trips easier.
Potty Training Essentials
At My First Nursery, we understand that having the right tools can make all the difference during potty training. Consider investing in:
• A child-friendly potty or potty training seat that attaches to your toilet.
• Training pants or pull-ups to help with the transition.
• Step stools to help your child reach the toilet and sink independently.
Remember, there’s no rush. Your child will master potty training in their own time. With patience, consistency, and the right potty training method for your child, you’ll both successfully navigate this exciting stage of development.